Such toys serve to stimulate your anus and prostate, and leave her hands free to stimulate other parts of your body. Before you get started, you obviously need to clean up, so opt to take a shower together. Because of the fragility of the tissue, it is also extra important to use a condom in order to prevent HIV, which can spread more easily if there are tears in the anus. However, keep in mind that you're not dealing with her vagina; therefore, you MUST be extremely careful and patient. When selecting anal beads, make sure your beads are high-quality and very durable. She should rub around your anus with some lube then slowly slide her finger up there about three inches almost her whole fingerpalm facing up. Be specific when choosing your first toy.
This will allow you to take your time without worrying about having another person present.
Letting Her Play With Your Backside
Van Kirk said this side-by-side position will stop your partner from going too deep too fast. This will allow you to take your time without worrying about having another person present. The anus through the pudendal nerves, the rectum through the pelvic nerves, and the G-Spot through the hypogastric nerves. In fact, it's possible to have an orgasm through nothing but prostate stimulation. After having penetrated the rectum, the penis should never be put into the vagina or mouth without changing the condom or washing it first. Return to the top of anal orgasm.